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A girl's first visit to the gynecologist
pediatric gynecologist · teen gynecologist · first gynecology visit · girl's gynecology checkup
This is your daughter's first meeting with a gynecologist. Most often it is a talk and an outside exam, without instruments.
When periods start, for an irregular cycle, pain, discharge, or for a routine checkup.
⏱ Duration: usually 20 to 30 minutes
Be sure to tell your doctor
How to prepare
- Talk. Calmly explain to your daughter ahead of time what will happen. Tell her she can ask questions and say "stop".
- Hygiene. In the morning, she should shower, without scented products.
- Diary. Write down her period dates, if they have started.
What to bring
- Your child's documents
- Her period diary
- Her medical record
- A list of her medicines
How it goes
- The doctor gets to know your daughter and talks with her and with you
- Sometimes the parent is asked to step out briefly so your daughter can talk openly
- Height and weight are measured, and the breasts are checked
- The genitals are checked from the outside
- If needed, an ultrasound through the belly is ordered
- The doctor explains the results and gives advice
What you'll feel
- Your daughter may feel embarrassed. This is normal
- The outside exam does not hurt
- The doctor explains each step before doing it
Afterwards
- Praise your daughter and talk about how it went
- Do any tests the doctor ordered
- Come back as the doctor schedules
Contact a doctor straight away if
- Severe belly pain: call emergency services
- Very heavy periods, weakness, or dizziness
- No periods by age 15: make an appointment with a doctor
Common questions
At what age should a girl first see a gynecologist?
Usually when periods start or around age 13 to 15. Earlier if something worries you.
Will she be examined on the exam chair?
Girls usually have only an outside exam. Nothing is done without her consent.